Self-confidence is the foundation of Success. Lack of confidence leads to so much dissatisfaction in life. In the journey of life from a student to a successful person, self-confidence plays a key role. We face many challenges towards success and the first step to fight those challenges is gaining confidence in yourself.
We see many people who are introverts, we see some of them staying calm or being backward in everything. Being introvert is not a problem until you are not low self-esteemed. Because low self-esteem always gives you negativity of life and often an inability to enjoy or anything from life. It is so important to stay self-confident to be a successful and happy person.
What causes people to be low confident?
Life is a very stressing indulging game where humans play with so many phases. Even its good phase or bad, both remain as a mark in the brain. We call them memories. When we have some tragic situations which keep us in depression that will affect our brain.
Some people will always move on from such a situation making themselves strong but for some people, those situations will be stores as bad memory in their brain. That will affect there self-confidence.
To get fear is the usual behavior for humans. But for some people, it will become a nightmare from which they couldn’t able to move on. Some of such incidents will be as follows,
Unhappy childhood where parents or some other people put peer pressure on you.
Lack of care from people
Lack of understanding about things going in life
Poor academic performance
These are quite common and some of the reasons why people stay low confident. Situations might differ from person to person. But when people are lowing self-esteemed then life never be like what they expect and they can never lead a happy life.
In such cases, it is necessary to gain self-confidence. And how you gain it? We have 5 most useful ways to gain self-confidence for such people.
Believe Yourself:
“Believe in yourself and the world will be at your feet.”—SWAMI VIVEKANANDA
As we know now that strongest factor for a successful life is self-esteem, so the strongest factor for gaining your self-esteem is believing in yourself. Believing that you can do whatever that challenges, believing that you deserve what you need and believe that you’ll win it.
Look in the Mirror and Praise Yourself:
“Look in the mirror. You are now looking at the person responsible for your happiness.”—CHARLES ORLANDO
This is one of the most useful ways for introverts. Look at yourself in the mirror and be proud of yourself. When you start saying things to yourself, soon one day you will start saying things to the world without fear. Visualize yourself like how you want to be always and this will make you curious about yourself and also decrease your fear. This starts bringing change in you.
Care Yourself:
“It’s not selfish to take care of yourself, its necessity”
Start taking care of yourself and love even the little things that you accomplish. It will improve self-love and takes you one step closer to self-esteem. Also by taking care of yourself, you will start taking a stand for yourself. People never leave a chance to mock on others, in such situations you should take stand on yourself so that you won’t get hurt. Self-care helps you to do so.
Set goals and Push Yourself:
“It’s important to push yourself to get better at your craft- whatever that is. It’s important to grow and evolve with each project.”- G.EAZY
Note down your daily goals, be it your faults that should be improved or the wishes that you want to achieve. Accomplish them without fear from day today. Pushing yourself to get better day by day. It’s quite a useful way to gain self-confidence because when you accomplish your goals and you making yourself better then it makes you feel happy and confident.
Exercise Regularly for Fitness:
“It’s not a great day until you workout”
Your physical health and your fitness will also play a major role in your confidence levels. If you’re happy with your physique and health, it will help you to improve your confidence. So exercise for your good health and stay fit.
These top 5 ways help you to increase self-confidence. These involve so many things that one will improve in themselves
- These help people how to take stand for the right
- These all help people to stay fit always
- These help people find out their own mistakes before someone pointing them.
- These help people to improve self-love and self-respect.
Even though these are top 5 ways, we have many ways to improve self-confidence, some of them are,
- Sitting with people and being active.
- Participating in conversation.
- A positive mindset.
- Accepting compliments
- Smiling always.
- Reading inspirational stories.
The last point “Reading inspiration stories” is also a good idea for improving self-esteem. Some stories will inspire us so much and make us feel good. They motivate us to be so positive.
To inspire you guys let’s know about Alexander Graham bell confidence,
Nowadays everyone uses phones and even we see newborn babies are also get addicted to the phone. But in early 100 years ago the thought of chatting with someone anywhere in the world is just impossible.
After Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone it went easy to communicate with each other. Now it’s another picture people video call to each other from anywhere in the world. But ever thought that what if Bells won’t start this. Can we expect where the world would be now?
From childhood, Bell was so fascinated about sounds and how they produce. He used to read many books regarding sounds. Seeing his interest in those, one of his friends informed Bell that there is one thesis on sound written by a German physicist. Though Bell doesn’t know how to read or write German, for the sake of understanding that thesis he learned the German language.
He read one of the sentences from the thesis as “Vowel sound can be electronically transformed” but when it is “Vowel sound can be electronically produced”. Bell developed a wish to invent the communication transformer through electricity by thinking the statement which is read wrong as true.
Bells continued to put the effort into what he doing. Even though he failed many times but at last he successfully invented the telephone by believing what he read.
Doesn’t it call confidence? Since Bell believed in himself and had had the self-confidence that he can do it, so it’s been possible for him to invent the telephone.
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